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How to Prepare for the Holidays: Tips from a Relational Therapist 
Kelsey Graham 11/5/25 Kelsey Graham 11/5/25

How to Prepare for the Holidays: Tips from a Relational Therapist 

Feeling stressed about the holidays? Learn how to manage family dynamics, set boundaries, and stay connected with your partner during the holiday season. Written by a Washington state relationship therapist offering virtual individual and couples therapy.

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What Is the Sound Relationship House and How Can It Strengthen Your Relationship?
Kelsey Graham 10/30/25 Kelsey Graham 10/30/25

What Is the Sound Relationship House and How Can It Strengthen Your Relationship?

Discover how the Gottman Method’s Sound Relationship House can help you build connection, trust, and understanding. Learn how virtual couples therapy in Washington can help you apply these principles in real life.

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Mindful Walking: An Accessible Way to Support Stress and Anxiety
Kelsey Graham 10/15/25 Kelsey Graham 10/15/25

Mindful Walking: An Accessible Way to Support Stress and Anxiety

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Understanding Your Window of Tolerance – and How to Expand It
Kelsey Graham 10/8/25 Kelsey Graham 10/8/25

Understanding Your Window of Tolerance – and How to Expand It

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What Is Premarital Counseling? And Topics You Might Cover in Sessions.
Kelsey Graham 10/2/25 Kelsey Graham 10/2/25

What Is Premarital Counseling? And Topics You Might Cover in Sessions.

Premarital counseling is a helpful way to build a stronger foundation before marriage.

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Living in Alignment: Why Our Values are Important
Kelsey Graham 9/24/25 Kelsey Graham 9/24/25

Living in Alignment: Why Our Values are Important

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What to Expect in a Therapy Consultation (And Why It Matters).
Kelsey Graham 9/18/25 Kelsey Graham 9/18/25

What to Expect in a Therapy Consultation (And Why It Matters).

Finding a new therapist can be nerve wracking! Washington based individual and couples therapist, Kelsey Graham, breaks down what her consult calls are like.

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Coping Skills: What’s in Your Mental Health Toolkit?
Kelsey Graham 9/8/25 Kelsey Graham 9/8/25

Coping Skills: What’s in Your Mental Health Toolkit?

Tips building coping skills for anxiety from a Washington based individual and couples therapist, with a virtual office in Spokane.

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Love Maps: A Simple Way to Connect With Your Partner.
Kelsey Graham 9/2/25 Kelsey Graham 9/2/25

Love Maps: A Simple Way to Connect With Your Partner.

Learn more about the Gottman Love Maps from a Washington State Couples Therapist. Virtual Office in Spokane.

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How Hobbies Helped Me Heal - from A Washington State Therapist
Kelsey Graham 8/26/25 Kelsey Graham 8/26/25

How Hobbies Helped Me Heal - from A Washington State Therapist

A Washington State individual and couples therapist talks about how hobbies can help with perfectionism and make way for healing.

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Relationship Questions - And Why You Should Ask Them.
Kelsey Graham 8/18/25 Kelsey Graham 8/18/25

Relationship Questions - And Why You Should Ask Them.

Discover why asking the right questions can deepen your connection. Virtual individual & couples therapy available in Washington, online office in Spokane.

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Feeling Your Feelings: A Guide to Emotional Processing
Kelsey Graham 8/11/25 Kelsey Graham 8/11/25

Feeling Your Feelings: A Guide to Emotional Processing

Struggling with difficult emotions? Learn how to acknowledge, accept, and understand your feelings with insights from a Washington virtual therapist. Individual and couples therapy available online across Washington.

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Grounding During Uncertainty
Kelsey Graham 6/25/25 Kelsey Graham 6/25/25

Grounding During Uncertainty

Tools for grounding during uncertainty.

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Values Based Actions
Kelsey Graham 6/18/25 Kelsey Graham 6/18/25

Values Based Actions

What values guide me?

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Why Does This Promote Connection?
Kelsey Graham 6/11/25 Kelsey Graham 6/11/25

Why Does This Promote Connection?

Why does this make me feel connected?

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Practice Developing your Sense of Connection.
Kelsey Graham 6/5/25 Kelsey Graham 6/5/25

Practice Developing your Sense of Connection.

How do I know when I’m feeling “connected?”

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Building Rituals for Self-Trust.
Kelsey Graham 5/28/25 Kelsey Graham 5/28/25

Building Rituals for Self-Trust.

Small ways to build self-trust.

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Subtle Ways we Avoid our Internal Experiences
Kelsey Graham 5/21/25 Kelsey Graham 5/21/25

Subtle Ways we Avoid our Internal Experiences

Detailing common avoidance strategies and what they look like.

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Noticing Avoidance
Kelsey Graham 5/15/25 Kelsey Graham 5/15/25

Noticing Avoidance

Promoting connection by noticing avoidance.

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Call for Connection
Kelsey Graham 5/7/25 Kelsey Graham 5/7/25

Call for Connection

Introduction to the series and tips for connecting inwards.

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Tuesday-Thursday 8am-6pm.

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